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Posted on: Thursday, May 29th, 2014


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Posted on: Thursday, May 29th, 2014


There will never be a point in your in your life — where it’s the right time to do a great thing. If you’re waiting for that perfect perfect moment, that perfect timing, it’s not going to happen. You know what you have to do? You have to create the perfect time, and the perfect opportunity, and the perfect situation.

So a lot of people become comfortable. They stop growing, they stop wanting anything, they become satisfied.

People getting ready to go to jobs that they don’t like, jobs that are making them sick. You see when you are not pursuing your goal, you are literally committing spiritual suicide. When you have some goal out here that you are stretching for and reaching for that takes you out of your comfort zone, you’ll find out some talents and abilities you have that you didn’t know you have.

When the messenger of misery visits you, what are you going to do? What will keep you in the game.

There are things that you think you’ll never need to know. That you may only need to know one time in your life, but that could save your life because you had that knowledge.

Unless you attempt to do something beyond that, which you’ve already mastered, you will never grow. What is it that you looked at, at some point in time and you decided that you couldn’t do it, that you talk yourself out of it.

You’re waiting on your next door neighbor to make it happen for you, it may not happen. If you’re waiting on your mother, or your father, they may be so ancient in their thinking, that they don’t understand this opportunity that you have. And if you’re waiting on them it may never get done.

You don’t beg average people to be phenomenal. You don’t beg good people to be phenomenal. You just are phenomenal, and you will attract phenomenal.

What reason can you remember, that you can call on, that you can reach on, that can make you get back up. Find that reason.

If you’re not where you are. If you’re not where you want to be. If you don’t have what you want, want to have. If you’re not where you think you should be at this particular place. It has nothing to do with the system, but it has everything to do with the fact that you’re not making the sacrifice.

I want you to make that dream become a reality, because if you don’t, you will be working for somebody else to make their dreams become a reality.

And everybody is against you, or don’t believe in you no more. And let me tell you something, that’s a lonely feeling. That’s a lonely feeling. Particularly people that you are doing it for.

Most people take their greatness, take their ideas to the graveyard with them.

Listen to me, if it was easy, everybody would do it. There are people right now who are working who don’t want to work. There are people who hate their jobs, but they keep getting up to do it.

The wealthiest place on the planet, is the graveyard. Because in the graveyard we will find inventions that we never ever were exposed to. Ideas, dreams, that never became reality. Hopes and aspirations that were never acted upon.

The question is what are you going to do with your time. What drives you. Greatness is a lot of small things done well. Day, after day. Workout after workout. Obedience after obedience. Day after day.

When things don’t work out for you. When things happen that you could not anticipate. What are the reasons that you can think of that can keep you strong.

You will never ever be successful, until you turn your pain into greatness, until you allow your pain to push you from where you are to push you to where you need to be. Stop running from your pain and embrace your pain. Your pain is going to be a part of your prize, a part of your product. I challenge you to push yourself.

See it’s easy to be on the bottom, it doesn’t take any effort to be a loser. It doesn’t take any motivation and any drive in order to stay down there on a low level. But it calls on everything in you. You have to harness your will to say I’m going to challenge myself.

I mean that what you did last week don’t count. Today today is the only important day. There are eighty-six thousand, four hundred seconds in a day and how you use those are critical. You got eighty-six thousand, four hundred today and what you do today is going to cement who you are. Nobody gonna talk about what you did last week.

Yet the biggest enemy that you have to deal with is yourself. There’s an old African proverb that says “If there’s no enemy within, the enemy outside can do us no harm.”

You have this opportunity of a lifetime. It means absolutely nothing if you don’t take advantage of it in the lifetime of this opportunity.

I got a saying that when life knocks you down, try to land on your back, because if you can look up, you can get up. If you want a thing bad enough to go out and fight for it, to work day and night for it, to give up your time and your peace and your sleep for it. If all that you dream and scheme is about it. And life seems useless and worthless without it.

See it’s time now. If you want to make this your decade, you’ve to start saying yes to your life. You’ve got to start saying yes to your dreams. Yes to your unfolding future. Yes to your potential. As opposed to saying no.

When you die, die on E. Leave no dream left behind guys. Leave no opportunity left behind. When you leave this earth, accomplish every single thing you can accomplish.

Listen to me, you’re going to be here one day, but you’ll never get here if you give up, if you give in, if you quit. And finally guys, you gotta wanna succeed, as bad, as you wanna, breath.

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Les Brown, Eric Thomas, Ray Lewis

Posted on: Thursday, May 22nd, 2014


Sports return to Edison State College after 17-year absence | Fort Myers Newspaper | News, Business, Real Estate and Arts in Fort Myers FL | Florida http://ow.ly/x9WSR

Posted on: Monday, May 19th, 2014


Evernote + LinkedIn: Powering Professional Relationships « Social Connect LLc, http://ow.ly/wHGTn

Posted on: Saturday, May 17th, 2014


Wise conveantion with Grant Cardone http://ow.ly/wXNgj

Posted on: Wednesday, May 14th, 2014


Naples Top Photographer & Naples Group Member bring more pride to naples

The Great American Coastline by Gareth Rockliffe « Social Connect LLc, http://ow.ly/wPJKX

Posted on: Wednesday, May 14th, 2014


I definitely appreciate what a talented photographer my friend Gareth Rockliffe is… You’ll definitely want to have a look at his work.  #NaplesFL #Photographer #GarethRockliffe
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A photographic quest to capture the soulful beauty, diversity and majesty of America’s coastline, beginning with the Pacific Coast.

For more than two decades I’ve dedicated my ‘eye’ to capturing the unique and the beautiful – the old and the new. With what has been a five year plan, my goal with this project is to spend time exploring, photographing, and capturing as much of the American coastline as possible, becoming completely absorbed in what lies before my lens. These photographs, which some people refer to as “Soulscapes,” will be shared with you through Limited Edition Fine Art wall prints, an awe-inspiring hardcover coffee table book, and my trademarked Videàge®, a technique for choreographing my best still images with audio and video, in a series of DVDs which will bring even broader meaning to the amazing visual imagery.

I believe that through your support of this project, the daily sharing of the work via social media, and the exhibitions and publications that will follow, there will be an increased awareness of the majesty of our magnificent coastline, and with this heightened awareness will come a stronger commitment to preserve it. This spectacular coastline is a precious gift, not only for this generation, but for all generations to come.

Because of the scope of the project, I will complete it over three years and divide it into three photographic quests – Pacific Coast, Atlantic Coast, and Gulf Coast. This Kickstarter campaign will fund the Pacific Coast Project, beginning in San Diego and extending to the Canadian border.

Jan Soderquist, my wife and fellow photographer, will document the project as it unfolds through video and stills, and make regular posts on our blog and Facebook page.

I will set out in June of 2014 on this extraordinary project with Jan and our little Havanese, Lily. We will make the four-month journey in our vintage Airstream trailer, which provides maximum accessibility to the coastline and keeps us one with nature.

Upon our return, and in time for your holiday gift giving, I will design and print the Limited Edition Fine Art wall prints, and the Special Edition hardcover coffee table book which will be an amazing selection of the very best images. I will also produce my trademarked Videàge® in the single DVD called The Pacific Coast, as well as the complete set of (4) DVDs called The Pacific Coastline Collection.

I am so excited about putting what has been a long time dream into action. I know that it will culminate in my best work to date. Jan and I hope you will join us on this journey and follow us on Facebook. We’d love to take you along!

Here is an example of the quality of my video work:

http://vimeo.com/79011352

Here are some examples of my published work:

Necker Island Flora and Fauna Slideshow:

https://vimeo.com/52493918

Portfolio Magazine February 2014 :

http://portfoliomagazinenaples.com/february2014/#/42/

Life In Naples March 2014 :

http://lifeinnaples.net/magazinewp/2014/02/28/march-2014-life-in-naples-magazine/

Portfolio Magazine February 2013 :

http://portfoliomagazinenaples.com/february2013/#/1/

Portfolio Magazine December 2011 :

http://viewsmagazine.com/portfolio-book4/index.html

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Risks and challengesLearn about accountability on Kickstarter

I see no risks with this project. If you like my work then what I produce on this trip will be in keeping with the best of my current portfolio. In the unlikely event of some unexpected situation occurring beyond my control resulting in my not being able to complete the journey and/or project, all of my existing work will be available to our contributors, thus fulfilling any project obligations.

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Posted on: Wednesday, May 14th, 2014


Published  | By LifeInNaples

The American dream is personified in its success stories. One of those is the story of Juan Carlos Castilla. He came to America in 2002 from Peru after graduating from Catholic University Santa Maria having studied economic science. Despite an impressive professional degree he obtained at the age of 22 and an early desire to become a diplomat in Peru, Castilla wanted to come to America.

And for Castilla, the American dream would not be paved with gold, but with roof tile and shingles. Today he owns one of the most respected roofing companies in town, Castilla Roofing. The American dream was an epic journey for Castilla. He arrived in The States on a tourist visa – landing in Miami with less than $100 in his pocket. The
first paychecks he received he used to pay back the money he owed for his visa and travel expenses. For a long time, Castilla had no shelter, no food – he looked for odd jobs riding his bike going door to door asking for work. In the beginning he lived in Ft. Myers, often having to sleep outside in the elements.

“Every night I searched for food and I lived in an abandoned house – that was my shelter,” he says. Southwest Florida nights can get cold too, and in coldest days of
winter he could barely move his fingers.

Juan Carlos Castilla

After a few nights sleeping in the abandoned house every little noise would wake him.

“I began doing roofing work and whatever I did, I had to do it right because I was so hungry – and when I found that job in a roofing company I promised myself I would never be hungry again,” says Castilla. “When I was in those years with no money I survived on crackers and instant soup – and I didn’t speak the language so coming
here was like moving to China with $70 in your pocket; it was hard but it was an adventure.”

Castilla credits his resurrection with a family of strangers. “One night, this big guy with a huge cigar knocked on the door of that abandoned house and I freaked out – living on the street you had to run from bad people who wanted to hurt you or had to do with drugs, but you also had to run from police because they don’t want you
to sleep on the streets. Half my body was out of the window but the man said, ‘It’s a really cold night’ and he brought a blanket for me. He told me, ‘I’ve been seeing you coming here every night on your bike, sleeping in this house’.

The stranger had a mechanic shop in Ft. Myers and the next morning, Castilla went to see him.

“I said, ‘Sir, you helped me last night – thank you’, and his wife had prepared a hot meal for me – I started crying when she gave me the food and I ate it so quickly,” says Castilla. “I told them I had no money to pay them, but I asked them to let me wash the dishes and they were so kind, they wouldn’t even let me do that.”

Juan Castilla and Son

Castilla insisted on washing the man’s cars and he helped cleaning the shop to pay for the food the man and his family provided. Eventually he found a job in a labor company and finally had enough money to afford a little tiny room.

“I moved up quickly and learned fast, so they made me a crew leader in the company, and then at his next company in Naples I made supervisor,” says Castilla. After that in Dec. 2006 I formed Castilla Roofing and in 2007 welcomed my first customer.”

Castilla drove around knocking on doors of homeowners who had roof problems to get business. ‘I noticed you have a broken tile – can I fix it for you?’ Castilla would say.
“Some of the people were happy to see me and others would threaten to call police and tell me to leave,” Castilla says, laughing. But he went everywhere, traveling all over for Florida looking for work, a journey that would help him build a reputation and name as a trustworthy, hardworking individual.

Castilla always wanted to be his own man, so rather than work for contractors, he preferred working directly with homeowners, a model that worked for him and still does.

His experience with some contractors shaped the way he treats his own employees. He was once doing stucco work and some of the days worked in excess of 16 hours – yet the man only paid him $50 – and that was after taxes.

“That’s why I believe in treating people as well as possible, with justice and fairness because I was there and I know how hard it is,” says Castilla.

“My motto is work hard, be honest and try to do the right thing because when you work hard, dreams can come true.”

Castilla Roofing does a lot of commercial work and works closely with boards of directors of homeowners associations – most of the company’s work is on big projects, for example one recent project encompassed 25 large buildings.

The Castilla family works as a team, with Juan Carlos working closely with his brother Ramon Castilla who as operations manager is charged with managing all the safety and field operations for Castilla Roofing. The sons credit their father Oscar Castilla for his role as principal business advisor in the company. Both Ramon
and Oscar served in the Peruvian Army.

Castilla is a proponent of charitable work and he is often invited to speak to young people. Last time he went to Peru he spoke to a group about motivation, following dreams and goals and how to accomplish them.

But perhaps his biggest influence now is on his 18-month old son Marcelo Castilla. Castilla says his son is the joy of his life and the biggest reason he pushes himself. “I want to give him the best life ever, provide for him and treat him with love and respect, because while anything can work if you have respect, if you don’t have that nothing is going to work,” he says.

For the future of Castilla Roofing, Castilla has lofty goals. He wants to the most successful roofing company in Southwest Florida and open branches of Castilla Roofing in more places. His motivation is more than just making money – Castilla takes pride in providing work to others who need it.

“Before I was so focused on being somebody in life and growing in my professional life and that was my focus, to grow the company,” he says. “But my son has made me understand that family is the most important thing.”

For more information on Castilla Roofing, visit www.castillaroofing.us or call 800.578.0035.

 

 

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 Read the May 2014 edition of Life In Naples

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Posted on: Monday, May 12th, 2014


President of WIlliam C. Huff Companies and national speaker for estate downsizing and lifestyle transitions « Social Connect LLc, http://ow.ly/wK40o

Posted on: Monday, May 12th, 2014


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